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请了半天假，国庆凑出八天半，全在家里。在外地工作、一个月才回一次，这次最好的部分恰恰是最无聊的部分：孩子吵吵闹闹，家里按自己的节奏运转，我只是待在里面，而不是"回来看看"。

<p>Eight and a half days home. I took half a day off and stretched the National Day week as far as it would go.</p> <p>By the middle of it I was tired, and I felt bad about admitting that. Nothing exhausting happened — just a lot of being around people. Meals, visits, conversations. All good things, and somehow still draining. Wanting to be home was never about being surrounded every hour, but it took me a few days to stop feeling guilty for needing the quiet parts too.</p> <p>Most of the time I just hung around with my family — my kid, my parents. Nothing worth reporting. I work far away and get back about once a month, so there's always this pressure in my head to make the days count. But the part I liked best was the boring part: my kid being loud, the house running on its own rhythm, me just being in it instead of visiting it. That's what I miss when I'm away. Not big moments — just normal days I don't get to see.</p> <p>Eight and a half days won't change anything. But I didn't spend them waiting to go back, and that felt like enough.</p> <p><a href="https://cerfly.net/zh/blog.html">全部文章 &rarr;</a> · <a href="https://cerfly.net/posts/how-i-built-this-site.html">阅读第一篇文章</a></p>